What am I doing, and why am I doing it?
This isn’t an uncommon question for any 22-year-old. When I first joined the post-acute sector as a young professional and a recent college graduate, I found myself asking this question a lot. Why join this industry, when most of my firsthand life experience until now has been so far removed from it?
I found my answer during an overnight stay at Christian Living Communities’ Holly Creek Continued Care Retirement Community (CCRC). Recently, with little more than a vague goal of getting some ground-floor perspective on what such a community might offer its residents, I spent 24 hours as a resident with Christian Living. To call the experience ‘eye-opening’ would be an understatement.
My arrival at Holly Creek resembled my first steps onto a college campus excited to see what would be in store for me and again wondering “what am I doing”? When I stepped into the reception area, my nervous energy quickly dissipated thanks to the immediate aura of warmth and compassion coming from the Holly Creek admissions staff who greeted me. I’ve stayed at a fair number of hotels in my short career, and most of them can’t hold a candle to Christian Living when it comes to quick and stress-free check-ins. The admissions team floored me with their uncanny ability to ease the nerves of new arrivals.
To more closely mirror the experiences of long-term care residents, I was assigned a wheelchair, with a primary diagnosis of a non-weight bearing hip fracture that required me to stay off my feet for my length of stay. With my new wheels, I reluctantly let myself be escorted to my suite – which was quite a step up from my first college dorm, by the way. The temperature was mild, the amenities were numerous, and the La-Z-Boy recliner was a revelation to a newly chair-bound twentysomething.
The staff at Christian Living was second to none. During my brief residency, I was looked after by nurses Desta and “T”. They went above and beyond in making sure new arrivals like me got acclimated to their new environment. Evals and check-ins were common without being intrusive, and their cheerful banter kept a light atmosphere throughout the night.
Desta and “T” weren’t the only Christian Living staff who impressed me. As the day continued, I seized the opportunity to have one-on-one chats with CNAs, social workers, administrators, the Director of Nursing, and even the on-site chaplain. All of whom exhibited a joyous passion and dedication to their roles, which require a great deal of flexibility when attending to a broad spectrum of resident needs. I saw many residents whose level of assistance varied, and I couldn’t help but feel inspired by the staff’s relentless patience and attentiveness at each of those moments.
As I felt my 24-hour tenure at Christian Living winding down, I reflected on those moments more and more. This, I thought, is what working in the senior care industry requires—a deep and abiding understanding of the day-to-day life of these residents, with all the little frustrations, struggles, and triumphs that accompany it. It requires inherent selflessness of character. It requires discipline and empathy in equal measure. Seeing those qualities in the Christian Living team—and seeing that devotion and delight reflected right back at them from their residents—sealed the deal for me: this work is worth it. If you do it well, it will always be worth it.
So, with my stay concluded, my wheelchair and I soon parted ways. That self-imposed confinement was the only thing about my visit that I wouldn’t miss. Standing up from it, I was struck by the privileges of my youth in a way that had never really hit me before. I suddenly imagined an older version of myself, similarly confined but unable to spring out of his chair after an arbitrary time limit. I want to do my part in making senior living communities like Holly Creek a haven for the hurting and a sanctuary that any elder will be thrilled to call home.
Thanks to Christian Living Communities for allowing me to visit and pick their brains for a night. I’m grateful to them because they helped me to answer those two questions that had been needling me since I joined the senior living field. What am I doing? I’m making a difference for people who never stopped mattering. Why am I doing it? Because it’s worth it, and it always will be.
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Thank you, Christian Living Communities’ Holly Creek Continued Care Retirement Community (CCRC), for inviting and welcoming Evan Clark to stay at your facility!